Still Getting Ready?


Let’s be honest for a moment.

You probably don’t need more tools.
You probably don’t need another framework.
You probably don’t need that new self-help book, a new community, or another twelve-week programme.

Pretty sure you already have more than enough to get cracking.

You have enough

Which makes the more interesting question this one:

Why aren’t you?

For a lot of people, the answer isn’t lack of resources or information, nor that they don’t understand the problem well enough yet; it’s that preparing feels safer than choosing.

As long as you’re gathering and preparing, nothing has to be closed off.

You don’t have to pick one direction and let the others go. Every option stays open.

And that feels safe.

Shit, it even feels productive.

But nothing really takes shape while everything is still an option.

I see this a lot with people who want to start something new. A business. A new offer. A new way of working. A new skill.

They read, watch, join, save, subscribe. They collect perspectives and examples in Excel sheets, Word documents and Notion boards.

From the outside, this looks like progress.

From the inside, it feels like staying busy while keeping all doors open a little longer.

And the longer that phase lasts, decision fatigue kicks in and the harder it becomes to choose, because choosing means accepting that other perfectly reasonable options won’t get your attention anymore.

I've done this more than I'd like to admit. 😕


These days, that pattern is easier than ever to fall into. Tools like AI can give you endless variations in seconds.

If you ask for more ideas, you’ll get them. If you want alternatives, those will show up too.

There’s always something else you could look at before making a call.

Then it will feel like a focus problem.

Often, it isn’t.

It’s what happens when keeping your options open quietly turns into avoiding the moment where one path gets chosen and the others don’t.

Indecision has a cost.

Tomorrow, let's bring this week together into something that gets you further, faster.

Make it a great day.


Joeri Schilders

SOLOPRENEUR l VIDEO MAKER l EDUCATOR

I help solo professionals like business coaches & consultants stand out and attract clients, so that they can reach an audience that others can only dream of.

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